Kissing....

Are you a good kisser?  Do you enjoy just the kiss or everything else that goes on while kissing?  Do you feel that kissing always has to lead on to something more?

Well, folks, here's my take on that subject.

I have been told that I am an excellent kisser.  Lots.  Funny thing because I was scared shitless when I first kissed a girl.  Maybe I'm just a natural at it or maybe there are a lot of bad kissers out there so I stand out.  Either way, I'll take it.

I love not only the lip to lip part but also everything else that happens during a kiss.  The embrace, the smell of her hair, the fondling, the response when I find something she likes.  In short, I love making out.  Nowadays, as I got older, I find that women just want to kiss like you do when you say hi or bye.  Screw that shit.  Give me a long kiss because you never know when you will see them again  It's not only a transfer of saliva but an exchange of emotions.

Then there's the passion.  Oh the passion.  My experience has been that I know the relationship is starting to decline when I don't feel passionate about kissing her.  Granted, passion isn't everything but it is a big part of a relationship.  I was married for many years and felt passionate about my wife everyday.  Passion cannot save a relationship but it is a big part of the formula.

As for kissing leading to other activities, I guess it all depends.  For me it doesn't have to every time.  I enjoy a good make out session as much as I like plowing the field but it's not necessary.  Most times one will lead to the other but it's more convenient when it doesn't.  I was not always like that and never understood why my buddies weren't anxious to close the deal with a random bar pick up but I guess I've matured over the years.

Kissing is one of those magical moments where you lose yourself completely and let go of all of your strings that restrain you.  You just allow yourself to live that magical minute like it will never end.  A good kiss remains with you for years, even after other kisses.  That one great kiss is yours forever.